Are you seeing the latest offer of Netflix, ‘When life gives you tangerin ‘Yes, we were discussing Beni Blanco, but still, tell us, have you? The series is winning a lot of praise for various reasons, including its rich script, luxurious performance and captivating screenplay. But beyond these amazing elements, Yang Gan-Sik (starred by Park Bo-Gum) has found a special place in the hearts of the audience.

Why? Well, it is what most women call ‘Hare Jungle’. Small gestures, cute nature, always taking care of small things, auxiliary – in short, he explains what a doting partner or husband should be (and, and not, we are not saying this – internet).

Now, it was a character of a fictional world, but even in real life, someone is ticking all boxes of being a ‘green flag’ lover.

Dear readers, this is none other than Beni Blanco – record manufacturer, lyricist, and most importantly, fiancée of Selena Gomez’s ‘Green Flag’ – who are sleeping every husband, fellow and lover nights. His emotional intelligence is a major talk, especially after his appearance on Podcast with J. Shetty, where his companions were also present.

Beni Blancco is not just another celebrity boyfriend – he stands in a world where emotional availability in men often feels like a rare object. Although he cannot fit the stereotypeical “long, dark and beautiful” mold, his recent interviews have shown some more attractive: fickleness, humility, kindness, and an authentic warmth that women are saying everywhere – that’s what we want!

But does it really make him so desirable?

Emotional availability

Dr. Nisha Khanna, a Delhi-based psychologist, broke it: “In today’s world, women are rapidly looking for men who are emotionally available, care, and affectionate. A man’s ability to show a man’s vulnerability and warmth makes a woman feel emotionally and physically safe. Acquisition, life balance, and comic.”

It explains why Beni Blanco has become such a standout figure. He does not just support Selena Gomez; He actively participates in his relationship with activism and self-awareness.

During the interview, Blanco says, “I know about her strength, and I know about her weaknesses. And what I try to do surrounds her with a lot of things. So, if she is away, and I have to go to dinner, then a party, then it, I am a simple text about this, I am thinking about this, I am thinking about this, I am thinking that I am going to struggle where I am going to struggle. Let’s remember

“She doesn’t need much. She is like the easiest person in the world. But I know she wants to talk to me before going to bed. She wants me to say ‘I love you.” She wants me to recite her if I air to live two hours late. Baa ba ba baDid, “He says.

What do women really want in a partner

There are always discussions for men how women are confused and eccentric about what they want – for them: Women will always tell you what they want, you just need a ear, men. And this, dear readers, Blanco believes.

Psychiatrist and life coach Dr. According to the moonlight Tuganit, their emotional intelligence makes them stand out. “Because he is showing us what it really looks when a man is emotionally intelligent, self -creating, and fully present. In a world where romantic companions often are emotionally unavailable, Benny stands out of some fanaticalist: He hears and not performing.”

Dr. Tuganit highlighted some of the major symptoms, women who want fast in their colleagues:

• Purposeful presence: Not only physical appearance, but also an emotional appearance that is deliberately performed instead of distracting. This is only beyond “being”, which is to actively confuse a partner without waiting for the emergency.
• Early partnership: Desire to do early emotional work before and during relationships. Beni’s physician-directed list shows someone who contacted to prepare something for love, not just as convenient.
• Fiery receptivity: The ability to obtain emotional information immediately without re -starting it through one’s own approach. This is different from the problem-solution; It is about absorbing the reality of another without defense or redirect.
• Shakti-respect support: The ability to stand with a partner’s abilities rather than trying to rescue or manage. It still represents a fundamental honor for a woman’s agency, offering real support.
• Emotional Cartography: Without the skills, triggers, happiness and needs of a partner to map and remember the emotional area, without the need for a constant reminder. This displays a commitment to understand the internal world of the other.

During the podcast, Blanco also reported that during Selena’s first few visits, she was still confident in the relationship. However, they soon felt something – “When you start dating someone, you are not only dating them, you are also dating every person who they have ever dated.”

He said, “You are receiving every piece of the person who was with the person. With the partners, the parents, this. I had to find a way to create that belief with him, not too much, but it was happening too much, but it was feeling real and it was real feeling and really believe it and on the contrary,” he said.

If Blanco lover is not a target, we do not know who is. Have you yet checked her Instagram, BDW,

Why emotional intelligence matters in men

There was a time when emotional intelligence was a characteristic that was not associated with men; It was an underwelld aspect. However, time is changing.

Dr. Tuganit insisted that “the era of apathy in the form of power is disappearing, and emotional intelligence is quickly becoming a marker of relationship maturity.”

Here it is important:

• This creates emotional security: A man who listens, validation and supports without a decision, creates a place where vulnerability can flourish.
• This reduces emotional labor imbalance: When men take emotional responsibility, they prevent women from carrying full mental and emotional loads.
• This deepens the connection everyday: Czech-in texts or oral confirmation, such as small, intentional tasks take care in such a way that grand gestures cannot always be captured.
• It respects personality: Emotionally intelligent men do not try to “fix” strong women; They support them.
• This defines manhood again: Strength is no longer about emotional troop, but is about being self-aware and reliably mature.

Emotional wisdom

While high emotional intelligence among men is a boon in any relationship and can nurture a happy home, there can be an alternative reality.

“It is also important to note that people with high emotional intelligence can sometimes use it to manipulate others. They understand the strength and weaknesses well, making it easy for them to push the right butt. If a person has a strong integrity, they can use emotional intelligence, which may make the relationship and more meaningful.