A new dating trend called ‘Shreking’ is gaining popularity online, and relationship experts harassed it deeply.

Inspired by the story of Shrek and Princess Fiona, the word refers to someone in the hope of getting better behaving in the relationship in a less attractive way.

It is completely common for someone to do less attractive dating than you. In fact, many people reduce the physical appearance in their list of dating preferences. However, experts say that it becomes problematic when you do this with the belief that there is more likely to be a less attractive partner loyal.

Delhi-NCR-based relationship expert, Ruchi Ruoh, says that this feeling is common in the dating world. The trend often stems emotional to avoid emotional security, respect and dating fatigue.

“In many ways, despite ‘worship’ or their look, there is also an unprovented expectation of gratitude to choose them,” Ruhu.

Problem with ‘Shreking’

24 -year -old social media professional Dhara says, “My friends often say that my boyfriend is not going to look good as me.

Most datars have experienced the cycles of ghosting and breadcrumbing, which has disappointed and ended them.

“It feeds in the belief that they usually find attractive by dating those by dating them by dating them, which they usually find attractive, which they can create more stable relationships, where they do valuable and care.”

But what looks and character is also connected? no way! In fact, you can mainly backfire this mentality.

The perception is that being less attractive makes someone more grateful automatically. But a relationship does not stend from care, warmth and appreciation, they come from a person underlying personality.

Ruuh shrekking calls a major red flag and a dark flawed approach. Authentic feelings and real relations should be the foundation of any relationship – it is not the perception that a partner will be available only because they are traditionally less attractive. It reinforces snowberry.

It also makes an uneven dynamic in the relationship.

This approach sees love and dating through a lane lens: ‘I have chosen you despite you being less attractive, so you are the gratitude of loyalty, heat and unconditional love.’

“Relationships may have aspects of transactions, yes, but expecting completely loyalty because you do not sit” settled “for anyone. It sees the foundation of healthy love, which is mutual respect and equality,” Ruoh says.

What does ‘Shreking’ say about you

Shreking reveals more about the mentality of the person who believes in the loyalty or treatment of a low-out-witted partner.

Shreking often stems from a person’s insecurity. This significantly indicates fear of rejection.

“Many people believe that whoever is considered less attractive can be a” safe “option than another attractive, which may be more alternative to the future or potentially leave them to look better,” Ruhu says.

It also belongs to less self-esteem and self-doubt issues. Some people cannot fully rely on their desiredness or struggle to understand how to feel real desire and mutual attraction. In many ways, it seems like a defense mechanism – a protective strategy where they make just a compromise to avoid injury.

Relationship expert Ruh says that it also includes an element of control. People can assume that a less attractive companion can be more easily affected, maneuver or dominating.

She says, “They can expect a certain type of ‘worship’ or additional devotion from them, because they believe that they are choosing them and offering something ‘better’.”

Obviously, avoid indulging in Shreking. Not only your partner can still cheat you, but the relationship is unlikely to fulfill. The real way to shrek your way in love is to find a partner like him – deep care, loyal and emotionally safe.