Art collector and socialite Shalini Pasi has emerged as the new star with the release of Fabulous Lives vs Bollywood Wives on Netflix. She looks stunning, almost like she has beautiful paintings which she is very fond of collecting. And her way of living is completely based on self-love, where she doesn’t let anything or anyone affect her feelings. For many who watch the show, the completely cool Shalini is like a balm for all your worries about being judged and ridiculed by society for your life choices.

While her elaborate outfits and fine jewelery reflect her impeccable taste, what she says makes a big difference and sets her apart from the other ‘fabulous wives’ on the show. Shalini doesn’t say anything that she doesn’t mean. She practices what she preaches and once you get into her world, her words seem like true life mantras.

Check out some golden words of wisdom from Shalini Pasi that can change your life forever:

1. I like things more than I like people.
2. The only reason I don’t have hatred towards other people is because it affects my skin.
3. I would rather jump into the deep sea than be with you.
4. When you change your outfit, you change your energy.
5. There are four stages of knowing me: first, disbelief; Then curiosity. Then there’s the ‘is it really true?’ Did he do all this?” And then complete surrender and love.
6. I don’t follow trends. For me, style is extremely personal – it’s all about me, not anyone else.
7. Their intrigue, their obsession, their interest in me is a waste of their time. They need to have a better hobby.
8. If I were left in the anger room, I would carefully take apart a TV and make a beautiful lamp out of it.
9. Jealousy, competitiveness are very negative energies. It’s not good for my sleep, it’s not good for my health.
10. Me and Sam, we’re working on making me a normal person. So we started working on those things. Then I realized, I said ‘I don’t want to be this person. I love the way I am!’
11. For me, even if someone hurts me a lot, I will never hurt him. It really hurts me to hurt someone. I would never do that. Talking about other people is torture for me.

Shalini Pasi’s simple way of living is remarkable, and in adverse circumstances you can always go back to these little mantras.