From shrugging off praise to having trouble asking for help, here are some signs you get that we struggle to receive affection and care.
When we grow up in dysfunctional homes, we try to be the peacemaker of the home and the one who solves problems. This makes it more difficult for us to receive affection when it comes our way.
“If you’re someone who has traditionally taken on the role of caregiver, giver, and supporter in your relationships, there’s a good chance that receiving is something you struggle with. While always about occupying this role It’s easy to complain and blame others.
affection is with Reflecting our efforts, there’s often more to this dynamic than meets the eye,” wrote relationship coach Stephanie Rigg. (Getty Images/iStockPhoto)
We constantly become the person in the relationship who gives, supports and includes the other person, often to our discomfort. (unsplash)
We face difficulties in asking for help, even when we really need it. When we need the support of others, we avoid asking them. (unsplash)
When someone tries to accommodate us or goes out of their way to make us feel comfortable, we feel guilty about it. (unsplash)
We have a hard time accepting compliments and compliments. We are quick to avoid or minimize praise. (unsplash)
When we become the center of attention, we feel extremely uncomfortable with all the attention on us. (unsplash)
