Aishwarya Rai Bachchan’s old interview, in which she opened up about losing herself after marriage and kids, is getting attention for all the right reasons
Aishwarya’s statement on life after marriage and children, “There is no question of losing yourself”
The Bollywood actress is in the news for an interview that took place almost 17 years ago. The couple got married in 2007, when Aishwarya’s film career was at its peak. At that time, the couple and other celebrities went on a tour called ‘The Unforgettable’. During the press conference of the event, Aishwarya was asked by a journalist, “We hope we don’t lose you because of marriage and kids”, to which Aishwarya replied Teacher The actress replied, “I am looking forward to having kids, I am enjoying the marriage, there is no question of losing myself in it.”
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Later in 2011, Aishwarya and Abhishek were blessed with a daughter, Aaradhya. However, Aishwarya’s statement of not losing herself in personal life commitments sets a strong example of how one should always keep their identity strong, no matter which way life takes them. Taking a cue from Aishwarya, here are some tips for mothers to avoid losing their identity even after becoming a mother.
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How not to lose yourself in motherhood
Motherhood brings with it a lot of responsibilities and here we are telling you how you can keep yourself in control while fulfilling the responsibilities of motherhood.
1. Take time for yourself
The most important aspect of not losing yourself in the responsibilities of being a mother is to always make time for yourself. Being a mother can be very demanding. Finding time for yourself can be difficult, but it is essential for your mental and physical health. Connect with your family and friends and ask for help to care for your baby while you take some time for yourself.
2. Avoid the guilt of being a mother
The 'perfect mom' voice in your subconscious might convince you that if you spend time with yourself, you are somehow taking away from your child. Learn to always focus on the positive aspects of what you are doing for yourself. Don't feel any shame or guilt in choosing yourself.
3. Write it down
Another effective way to keep yourself updated is to write down your feelings, hopes, and dreams in a journal. Writing down your challenges, hopes, and beliefs can help you pinpoint your needs.
4. Follow your bliss
If you have a hobby, keep pursuing it. If not, find something you enjoy doing, even if it's only for a few minutes a day. Don't ignore your needs and desires amid the responsibilities of motherhood.
5. Focus on your career
Becoming a mother doesn't mean that you give up on your career and goals. You can take a break for a few months to get used to the change, but it is important to prioritise your career.
Being a mother is a great joy but never lose your shine in the process.
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